I resisted a sale today...

Just thought I'd stop by and share my ability to pass up a sale today.


Today while shopping I saw one of the craft books I've been looking at for the last few months. I pass it every once and a while, flip through, sigh a little bit and put it back. It's $14 at Amazon and almost $18 in the store. Today it was marked down to $7. At first I was so excited I was finally going to get my book at a decent price, but after carrying it around a while I realized I've spent so much time just thinking about this book that I really didn't want it anymore. I never really needed it to begin with especially since you can find most projects for free online.

And you know what? It felt great to put the book back and walk off without it. Not only did I save $7 but I didn't bring any extra clutter into the house.

I figure if I can walk by a cheap craft book without buying it, anyone can do it.

Yankee Candle - 50% off

The after holiday sales are already starting.


Today Yankee Candle has started their Semi-Annual Clearance Sale!

You can get
Large Jar candles for $15 or 2/$25
Medium jar Candles $12 or 2/$20
Tarts and Votives for $1
Gift sets are 50% off
And there are some dollar deals for $12, $10, $7, $5, and $1
This includes those awesome beans wax candles for $3.

And if you buy right now shipping is $5 for all order under $100.

I purchased a lot of items during this sale last year and had some great gifts to give away this Christmas.

Just to warn you though last year in January this sale went to 75% off so if you don't have anything in mind or have spent 2009 stocking up on candles like I have you might want to wait for even bigger discounts.

15% off Hoover Upright

Had a quick deal to share with you mailed in from Barb.



You can get a new Hoover WindTunnel® Upright for $84.99 with free shipping if you act quickly.

Visit this LINK to view the product and add it to your cart.

For 15% off, use code TWinter
For Free shipping, use code TShipDeal


I just tried out the codes and everything is working wonderfully and yet you can use both codes.


Thanks for the tip Barb W.

Busy weekend

So Matt and I had a really busy weekend. We still have a few small projects to complete on the house and took the weekend to cross one off the list.

When we moved into our home they had carpet in the kitchen which smelled like grease badly.
Here are the kitchen floors after we riped up the carpet.




And here is the kitchen after we laid down the new tile.



We went with just a simple peal and stick. We really want to redo the kitchen in the next few years so we didn't see the point in paying a ton of money for real tile. I picked up these tiles on sale for $.49 a piece at Menards a few weeks ago so they were well within our budget. They aren't as thick as I would like but they are working fine and I think the floor looks really good.

Great Reads - Friday 18th

Jane from Makes and Takes has the recipe for Homemade marshmallows they look great.

After December 31st Kroger will no longer be accepting PG&E coupons, you can read the post at Mommies with Cents

Wise Bread has a great post up on Magic Jack and whether or not it's a scam.

Myra at Happy House Wife Life has a tutorial on making a candy cane chandelier.

These Homemade hot drink mixes from Money Saving Mom are book marked to use for next year.

Frugal Dad has an Affordable home security post up. Great ideas for the holidays.

Stop by Craftzine to see quite a few upcycled Gift Wrapping

2009 – 2010 Yearly Goals

Have you started looking back at your 2009 goals yet? If you’re like me you probably reached some goals but not others. And trust me that is 100% ok. This is a great time to ask yourself why. Did you set your goals too high, lose steam half way through the year or maybe you decided the goals wasn’t important any more. Any way you look at it you can learn a lot about yourself through analyzing what did and didn’t work for you in 2009.

I haven’t finished all my goal analysis yet and already I can see what did and didn’t work for us. I can then take this information and use it to set better goals next year.

Which brings me to my next topic: have you started thinking about your 2010 goals yet? You should be. I’ve been thinking of our since before Thanksgiving. Now I’m just working on the finishing touches and wording before I share them.

2010 is going to be a BIG year for us, how is it looking for your family?

Great freebies to look for...

Over the last few weeks I’ve received some great freebies in the mail all just because I filled out the online form.


For example Glidden paint offers up free colors at least twice year. This is the second sample I’ve received from them. You get to pick your sheen and color from any of their choices. This time I selected Robin Eggs blue, I think I’m going to paint a few shelves before hanging them up with this color.

Don't mind that all my pictures were taken on my stove, I'm running out of clean spaces with all the gift wrapping going on here.

I also received my See Here Christmas cards last week. After reading about the offer on another blog I decided to give it a shot. Since I got in on the deal a little late I did end up having to pay around $4 in shipping but even at that price they’re a great deal.


Many freebies are offered more than once allowing you to take advantage of them multiple times. So make sure to pay attention for when they’re offered again and keep checking onourwayonline.com as I’ll be highlighting my favorites during 2010.

The Tipping Point - Book Review

I read The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell during my blogging hiatus. WOW! This book is really good. I’m classifying it a fun educational book, which are hard to find.

The Tipping Point: How little things can make a big difference, divulges into the theories of how epidemics of all kinds get started from the latest shoe trends to Columbine. Malcolm explains it all at great length without losing your interest. The Tipping Point is full of past psychological experiments which give us facts and a back story – having this makes believing the research so much easier. They aren’t just numbers thrown on a page you can get a full view of the situation from each mini story.

The cases and social studies span from the 1960’s until publication in 2000 which helps keep them interesting as well. Malcolm also describes the three types of people who allow these trends to grow salesmen, mavens, and connectors. Once you learn the roles of these catalyst you’ll have a much better understanding of how the cycle works.

If you’ve ever wondered how some trends take off and others plunder you need to read this book. This book is so good even after making my commitment to reduce my book collection I won't be re posting it on paperbackswap.com

Books Read in 2009: 30
Books to Read in 2009: 20

Free photo Book, Photo cards, calendar, or $25 gift card

Stop by Freebies for Mom to find out more about the American Greetings 20,000 people giveaway today.

I just received my code and can't wait to get started on a book.

Lots of good things happening online this week

It seems every blog out there is updating about the Monday Cyber deals going on today.
Honestly I just don't have time for that today but I did want to highlight a few really great ongoing deals/specials.

Dave Ramsey is hosting an online sweepstakes through December. Today is a chance to win a $1000 to start your emergency fund or help others. Stop by his Christmas giveaway page to enter.

Freebies for Mom has a post up on your chance to receive great prizes from Photoworks. The first 25,000 who register at American Greetings on Tuesday (12/1/09) will receive a free photo clutch book, 25 holiday cards, or an 11,x8 calendar.
Stop by her Photoworks post here


Money Saving Methods has the scoop on how to get a free photo canvas (you pay $15 shipping). I so want to get in on this but can't find a picture I want to blow up. Anyway if you have a great picture you'd like turned into a canvas stop by Her post here

Have you found any great deals this week and want to share? Feel free to send me an email or leave them in the comments section.

Dave Barry Turns 50 - Book Review

Dave Barry Turns 50 is a comical look back to the first decades of the baby boomers and ends with a few pieces of advice from Barry himself.

I was in the mood for a funny read after a few stressful weeks and this book hit the spot even if I couldn't relate with everything.

Dave Barry turns 50 is a funny book but might be better suited for the actual target audience, a baby boomer.

Books Read in 2009: 29

Books to Read in 2009: 21

Cheap Menards Candles

As it gets closer to the holidays it seems more and more stores are having some great sales.

I seem to be on a candle buying spree right now but I wanted to tell you about some super cheap soy candles from Menards.

Sorry about the image quality - I'm not quite sure what happened.

Right now Menards has their Langley Home soy candles on sale for $4.99 with a $4 rebate.

That's a great 13 oz candle for $.99

They also still have their Glade candles for $1.97 which after the $1.50 off coupons found inside makes them $.47 plus remember you can buy three items and send away for the $5 rebate.

Read the following post for more information.

Menards also has their 8 pack AA batteries for $.99 this week. Remember to stock up before Christmas.

We've Moved!

So this weekend Matt and I moved into our new house.
I wanted to put up a few pictures of our move and give some moving tips for everyone out there.
We all know it is important to plan ahead and do the best you can to make your move as easy as possible so follow along with my tips to a successful move.


First make sure to keep your new place as clean as possible when moving in. You don't want trash laying around while you are trying to set up spaces. Never just throw things around - you have to pick up after yourself. As you can see from the picture below Matt and I kept everything spotless during our move. It was very helpful and I know I won't be spending the next week picking up trash.



Just like above never just leave trash and other things in odd places. If you have a shelf you know you'll be using for bathroom supplies make sure to put them in immediately. Creating a mess in a location will only make unpacking that much harder. Things like Glass Cleaner, work gloves and appliance owner manuals should always be put in their proper places. Also make sure to eat healthy while you are moving. No McDonalds or other fast food restaurants, it will only create more clean up later.


I always make sure to unpack and decorate a room right away. The last thing you want is to be living in a room that isn't fully decorated, especially a master bedroom. It's important to get those things up right away.




Organization is very important, again if you have items to put in a room make sure to put them away immediately. What ever you do don't just take a tub of items and throw them in a room. This will undoubtedly cause you to rifle through the box later for those important items like a toothbrush or shampoo.


And lastly as you'll see below, make sure to set up the important spaces first. Things you will most need; bathrooms or a kitchen would make the most sense. Never waste time on your first day by setting up an office to make sure the internet works. Also what ever you do - DO NOT plug in and turn on a TV it will only halter your speed. Matt and I wait until we are fully moved in before becoming distracted by these electronics.



As you can see Matt and I followed all the following tips which is why we had a smooth and stress free move. Our house is fully decorated, things are put in their places, and we're ready to welcome guests. It also means we won't still be unpacking for years to come... or does it.



Post Translation: In reality our house is a mess, stuff is everywhere, I think we've run of out garbage bags for all the trash, and I can't see the kitchen counters. I'll be unpacking boxes for at least the next five years and the cats are scared to death of the hardwood floors.
Yet, we are here so mission accomplished right?

What the Dead Know - Book Review

During my absence I also finished “What the Dead Know” by Laura Lippman.

It is a fictional mystery about two sisters who end up missing and how the lives of those connected unfold over time. “What the Dead Know” is a great story with an amazing twist; unfortunately the authors writing style prevents readers from really immersing themselves in the story.

The narrative skips characters and time on a random basis with no real warning besides the start of a new chapter. Once you get the characters figured out and a good handle on the time jumping the story is a good read. It holds your interest and keeps you guessing all the way through – just like a murder mystery should.

Book Read in 2009: 28
Books to Read in 2009: 22

I think I've finally returned...

Where oh where have I been?
I honestly wish I knew – I didn’t even realize it had been so long until Matt made a comment to me the other day. What can I say – life got in the way. Being sick for a few days really set me behind and I’ve been struggling to catch back up. I also woke up this morning not feeling 100% again and have only gotten worse as the day goes on. I really cannot afford to get sick again.

I think I just need to get back in my routine. I haven’t even opened my google reader since my last post and I had over a 1000 post waiting for me when I looked tonight. I’m sure I missed out on some good deals along the way.

The good news is Matt and I are officially moving into our new house this Friday. I am so excited to share before and after pictures with you. I’m also getting excited to start decorating for Christmas and get started on some of those projects I’ve been waiting to try.

Plus I’ve talked most of the families into another no gift Christmas this year so I need to get gift crafting. I’ve got some tasty treats planned – I’ll make sure share them with you as well. I also did lots of reading while I was laid up on the couch so expect some reviews soon.

Knockout Entrepreneur - Book Review

So I was able to finish Knockout Entrepreneur by George Foreman last week.

The book is billed as a publication where “Foreman shares his success secrets with aspiring and current entrepreneurs” (amazon.com) Foreman walks you through what he believes are the core values to being successful for example; Know Your Foe, Listen to Your Corner, Keep Answering the Bell, and Make it Good.

In each chapter he discusses the definition of each value and gives examples from his real life. I’ll be honest I didn’t not enjoy this book. Reading it felt like a huge chore I needed to check off and it took me weeks to finish it. I love motivational books, my favorite kind is one that leaves you pumped and ready to make changes in your life – unfortunately this book doesn’t. After the first chapter it becomes one big advertisement for Foreman.

Now I know he has done amazing things with great success but it felt like every page was a big Foreman commercial. For example did you know George was, in , thought about being involved in, beef manufacturing, restaurant chains and green cleaning products? Yeah either did I but after reading about it so much I’ll never forget it that’s for sure.

The underlying advice is pretty good, but you have to wade through everything else to get to it.

Books Read in 2009: 27
Books to Read in 2009: 23

Quick Update

I’m sorry my posting lately has been erratic at best, I’m trying out the posting every other day model which was going well until this weekend. Within the last week I’ve been exposed to strep throat, bronchitis, influenza A and mersa. By Friday I was feeling fine and thought I had made it through without catching anything – then I woke up Saturday. I wasn’t feeling good but not horrible either, fast forward to Sunday when I spent all day with body aches, scratchy throat, a headache and runny nose.

I think I’m starting to feel better but I’m still exhausted and my nose isn’t fairing well. I took the weekend off from working on our new house and won’t be over there tonight either. Here’s hoping I’m back in shape by Thursday so I can finish up some stuff. We are so close to moving in, just need to sand the floors and I can’t wait to share pictures with you.

Good Reads 10/16/09

Check out this great tutorial on how to make Large vintage looking dominoes from Shanty 2 Chic - They look great. I can so see a set of these hanging in our new basement game room.

Michigan Saving Mama has the information on gift packs at local fast food places. These would make a great treat for Halloween night.

Frugal in Virginia has the scoop on how to get some FREE neosporin lip health from CVS

Stop by Wise Bread and read up on 28 ways to have cheap Halloween fun

Craftzine has a great post on How to make an acorn bird feeder (so cute). You can also read up on how to make a Halloween candy bar wrapper (In the shape of bats and mummies)

Coupon Cravings has a post on the new reusable bag program at CVS. Use a reusable bag 4 times and get a $1 ecb. Read the full scoop here I love all these rewards for using reusable bag now.

Linaloo has a tutorial on how to make a patchwork start

Some Cheap goodies at Menards

Menards has a couple of good Freebies this week but I wanted to highlight the two I took advantage of.

This week you can get an eight pack of batteries for $1.99 with a $1 rebate making them only $.99 - that's a great deal especially with Christmas right around the corner. There is a limit of four per offer though.

And they have most of their Glade candles on sale for $1.97. My Target has marked their candles back up, but I have a ton of the $1.50 off coupons left. If you're like me and need to get rid of a few these candles come out to $.47 a piece - not as great as $.16 but still a good price. They have the tins like Target, refill packets, as well as these cute glass holders which I purchased. They are really cute holiday holders.

An Ideal Husband - Oscar Wilde

I actually read An Ideal Husband, a play by Oscar Wilde last month but am just now getting around to reviewing it.

This play contains politics, love, and black mail what more could you want? Turmoil revolves around the main character’s ability to handle a threat to reveal a dark secret from his past and possibly jeopardize his marriage. You’ll read how each person responds to this information and some great interactions with one another. The deep story line discusses human morals, remorse and the question of if a loved one can accept faults.

I really enjoyed this play. It was a quick read with a story that still works today, a truly timeless piece. If you are looking for a fun steady tale that will make you smile this is the play to pick up.


Books Read in 2009: 26
Books to Read in 2009: 24

Febreze Home Collection Review

I’ve had this amazing Febreze gift pack in my home for about two weeks now and can’t even express how much I love everything.

I was graciously given the gift basket by myblogspark.com and Febreze. There was a flameless candle, reed defuser, jar candle, and room spray all in the Green Tea Citrus scent. Also included were extra shades for the flame less candle in each scent.

Reed diffusers are not something we use that often in our home. Normally one of the cats ends up knocking the bottle over - I think they want to play with the sticks or something - and sure enough this one lasted about a week before Matt found it sans liquid. I do love the look of diffusers, they just don't work well in our living environment. And best of all I've recently seen these on clearance at Target and Wal-Mart so you should be able to pick them up pretty cheaply. ($7 - $9 I believe)

The flame less candle is really neat, the shade is always releasing a scent and the base flickers to look like a real candle when turned on. It is great to use when my sister is visiting - all the look of a regular candle but non of the wax or smoke. These have also been spotted on clearance at Target.

We were also able to try one of the new Febreze candles and you've got to try one for yourself to see how great they are. Honestly I' normally a Yankee Candle girl all the way when it comes to candles but I'll be adding Febreze products to my stack more and more. We used this one in our dinning room and you could smell it throughout the whole first floor. I love when you don't have to be within two feet or strain your nose to smell a good candle. These are just amazing.

Right now Wal-Mart has a ton of their Febreze candles marked down to $5 - with coupons that have been circulating you can get them for $2 to $5 - totally worth it.

Have you tried any of the new Febreze fragrance collection, what did you think?

September Financial Update

I haven't done a budget update since July but here is one for September.


As of October 1st our savings stand as follows:

Car: $4,701.95 Down from July $16 which isn't too bad considering we did an oil change, brake repair and purchased four tires during the last two months.

Emergency: $5,164.42 Fully funded an up $55 from July - not a lot but we're only putting 5% of the extra into this account at this point

Dream (early retirement): $1,348 Down a lot ($857.75) from July but as I stated back then we've been buying all the new things for our home from this account since that's what it was intended for. $500 for just paint, electrical supplies and various other odds and ends were all purchased with that money.

Total: $11,215.32 down ($810) - not how I would like the numbers to look but with the circumstances being as they are I can handle it.

I really hope we can stock a lot of money away during the last few months, but we also have more money to put into our new home before we can move in (refinishing the floors, etc) so we'll see how it ends.

October is Fire Safety Month

October is fire safety month which means you can expect lots of great sales on fire prevention items.



The above two pack of smoke detectors is originally $11.96 at Menards.

Right now you can pick them up on sale for $7.99 with a $3.00 rebate for a final price of $4.99 or about $2.50 each alarm - a great deal There is a limit of two and the deal also includes a small fire extinguisher.

Our new house needs smoke alarms so this sale couldn't have come at a better time.

Smart Doodles from Trent - Part One

Trent at The Simple Dollar had a great post up on September 21st titled Business Card Doodles. The post contains some sketches he’s made over time on the back of business cards, many of which just resonated with me because I write things like this down all the time. My notes normally end up on scrap pieces of paper and I find them all over my desk months after they were written.

Stop by and read his original post HERE because he’s got some sound advice going on. Some of his card drawings got me thinking about my own personal finance beliefs and I wanted to share a few of my thoughts about them here. (with Trent’s permission of course)

First up...



Every $ you spend - You spend a little of your soul along with it - Spend your money wisely, dearie!

I’ve said similar things many times except rather than soul I think retirement or whatever your end goal may be. It’s sometimes hard to do but every time I go to buy something I ask myself four questions...

1. Will this actually bring me joy?
2. Will I use it enough to make up for the cost?
3. Am I willing to work more to pay for this?
4. Can I make money from it/with it?

And then if the item passes one or more of these questions I ask the most important follow up question.

Is this more important to me than doing something in my early retirement?

And no matter what your end goal is we are all saving for something – every dollar you spend today is one less dollar towards your goal.

Put the latte down and ask yourself do I want this more than I want to retire early, sit on the beach for my next vacation, that car 100% paid for, whatever it is for you.

Yet; I won't lie to you, there are definitely times when the $3 latte or a $10 Yankee Candle wins out for me. In fact a ten cent book will almost always find a place in our home. And that’s ok – we all spend our money a little frivolously here and there, but if you’re putting every tiny purchase above your goal it may be time to reevaluate what you’re saving/working for and how important it is to you.

You can have anything you want if you’re willing to work for it – you just have to figure out what you’re willing to work for… and sometimes that’s the hardest question.

More free Target candles

Once I finally found a Target with candles I am loving getting these for $.16 and as an added bonus both the Targets I've shopped at have been fully stocked. I picked up five today and didn't even make a dent in their supply. (I don't like buying a lot of something if I am taking everything).

On a side note does anyone know how long these candles are going to be marked at $1.66?




5 Glade Candles $1.66
- Used (5) $1.50 off coupons from can

Total: $1.30 (I was charged tax on the full amount)

Total Savings: $14.15!!!

Last Sales of the Season

I have two weeks of finds to share with you tonight.
There is one last day of my favorite flea market for the year at the end of October so we might have one more post but it won't be for a few weeks.


This old Christmas tree reminds me of one my grandma always has on her table during the holidays. I thought it was a steal at $2, plus it came with a full bag of extra bulbs, I just need to buy a light for it.

A new Volunteers of America Thrift Store opened near our home and they had some great stuff inside. I picked up the two parfait dishes for $.30 each, the cool glass vase has a really neat shape unlike anything I've seen before it was $.60. The fairy light was only $4 so of course I had to have it. And lastly there was a bag of these fake wooden butterflies and some gold ones wrapped around for $1.50. My Mom had a set of these when I was young (I even have photographic proof) so I couldn't leave the store without them. I plan to put the big ones in our new kitchen and I'll figure out what to do with the metal ones later.



My last find are these two glass lamps. They don't look great right now but I plan to clean them up and fix the bases. At $3 I couldn't let them go - I've been looking for two lamps that would fit any decor and have an old feel to them. I plan to make some great shades and use them in our new sitting/living room.

Stop by Rhonda’s party at Southern Hospitality to see even more yard sales deals. It's her last party for the year so you don't want to miss it.

Cheap Target Candles

I finally made it to a Target with coupons to buy some of their cheap Glade candles.



I picked up four of the Glade Scented oil candles

The sign on the shelf said they were full price at $2.99 but when I scanned them they popped up at $1.66.

I used the $1.50 off coupon found in the top of the candle to pick these up for only $.16 each.

I plan to use them for gift baskets later this year - no one needs to know I paid less than $.20 for them

Good reads 9/25/09

Cheap and super cute pumpkin decorations at Chocolate on my Cranium Seriously they're made from toilet paper rolls and fabric - don't believe me that it could be adorable then check it out for yourself.

Debt free living is attainable if you want it From Wisebread.

The Best Online Banks for Emergency Funds from Frugal Dad

A great list of Companies to email for coupons from Nicole's Nickels

Millionaire Mommy Next Door has a gust post up on Are you Saving enough for Retirement - Use these 4 simple rules to find out

The Craftzine blog has a tutorial on How to sew a small lined purse

A great post on How to make a set of floral lights from The Crafty Chica.

Learn how to recycle old candles into new ones at Recycled Crafts

Ever wanted to recreate some of those delicious restaurant meals at home? Stop by Money Saving Mom to download A free copycat restaurant recipe ebook

Did you know if you write off credit card debt you still have to claim it on your taxes? Yeah, neither did I. Stop by Wise Bread to read their article on Forgiven debt isn't really forgiven at all

Frugal in Virginia has a Reminder to get ready for after holiday clearance deals - Last year I purchased almost all our Christmas gifts for this year by the end of January 2009. We've put a little bit of money away each month throughout the year and I plan to take that money to do it all over again this year. It's so nice to have a stress free holiday.

Wal-Mart Freebies

Have you been to Wal-Mart for more cheap candles and Johnson’s freebies?



- 1 Johnson’s Buddies soap $.97
Used a $1 off coupon from last weekends paper
- 1 Febreze Candle $5
Used $2 off from contest
- 2 Glade Sense & Sprays $5
Used (2) $4 off coupons from Right at home Print Yours HERE

I plan on using the candles in our new home and as some Christmas gifts.

Love! This Site Award Nomination

OnOurWay has been nominated at DivineCaroline.com for a Love! This Site Award.

I'm not sure when the voting period ends but it would be an honor if you could stop by and give OnOurWay your vote - You can find us under the "Careers and Money" category or just follow This Link.

You do have to register but I promise it's easy to do and it looks like you can vote for more than one site in each category. I've already found two other sites I want to start reading in the future just from browsing the nominees.

House Projects

It is official – our house is now on the market. We’ve already had one couple call and ask information about it but they haven’t scheduled a viewing yet so we’re just crossing our fingers at this point.

We did a few things to finish the house up before listing it and I promised pictures so here they are….

We painted our spare room (innuendo). I love this color so much I think we'll use it in one of our rooms at the new house.


Our bedroom went from white to a basic tan color. Not my favorite but it gets the job done.


And lastly our kitchen received a new floor. We were up till almost 1 am putting the peel and stick tiles down, but I think the end result is great.


We also gave our carpets a nice shampoo and touched up ALL the trim in the house.

Now that our current home is complete we are focusing on our new home. There is still so much to do before we can move in, but I’ll give you picture updates as I get them.

Labor Day Sales

I’m a two weeks late posting these but I wanted to share some of the items I purchased at our Labor Day Yard sale extravaganza. (On a side note I looked for fun ties but only found the boring plaid kind – sorry Dad but I’ll keep my eye out).


I paid $1 for these three gourds which I plan to give to my mom, she makes bird houses with them and they’re amazing – I’ll have to share pictures one day.


The chair was $2 and I’m hoping my Mom will teach me how to reupholster it – as a thank you for the gourds of course. : ) (I’m sneaky like that). I love the curves of the chair and think it would be great in a nice retro color and maybe a dark stain. I’ll have to see what I can find.

The glass bottle was $.75. The man selling them had boxes full of old bottles, but since I couldn’t take them all I ultimately had to go with the one that most caught my eye. Green glass is always my first pick.

There is one more weekend of my favorite thrift sale and then the season is basically over here in Michigan.

Head over to Southern Hospitality to see what everyone else was able to pick up this weekend and post your own link to join in her party.

It's Football Season Again

The leaves are starting to change and the weather is starting to get colder. For some people this time of the year is known only as fall – for those not so lucky we know it as football season.

When I first met Matt I realized he watched a few football games here or there yet it was nothing extravagant, but the longer we’ve been together things have started to change. More and more football has slowly seeped into our lives. It creeps up on you, one game here another there and before you know it you’ve been sucked into the life of a football wife. At this point I’m starting to think he’s one game away from breaking out the body paint and really showing some team spirit.
Let me explain what football season means for me.

Lets say for example the Lions (our state team) play a game on Saturday. We will watch said game and the ongoing commentary live, that’s all find and dandy. Sometimes I ask questions like, “How does number 20’s Mom feel about his latest drug charge,” but for the most part, I consider football to be one big soap opera with too many characters.

I can handle the original Saturday games, the really scary part comes on Sunday, when we will undoubtedly watch the game replay with even more commentary. I swear to you sometimes the Sunday commentators make remarks about Saturday’s commentating. Then if we're really lucky we get to view the game highlights on the evening news.

Whose bright idea was it to replay old games, especially those preceding 1995? Did they not realize what they were doing to wives everywhere?

I see two big problems with this football issue. First we’re watching The Lions, the team that went 0-16 last season. I mean I get the whole stand by your team and all that jazz, but the optimism every season is delusional.

2nd and maybe the most obvious we have already watched this game as in I know the score and all the good plays. I keep trying to explain to Matt that football reruns are not like extended version DVDs. You don’t watch the original in theaters and then see bonus footage later. We saw all there was to see the first time.

I continue to promise Matt the score didn’t change over night, but alas we watch again – just in case.

Why move....

After my post on how we purchased a new home I received a concerned email that Matt and I were not making the best financial decision by purchasing a second home right now. I want to promise everyone Matt and I did not enter into this decision lightly – we discussed it and ran numbers for months – seriously. We also looked at homes for over seven months before finding the place for us. It has the right qualities, the right location and of course the right price, but there are other perks as well.

Less gun confusion
Some of the reasons we decided it was time to move were financial and some where not. In my last post about the issue I said our new place was in a much better neighborhood and I wasn’t exaggerating about the gun shots. This summer we had three shootings within a two mile radius of our home. The convenience store is robbed once a month on average – not kidding; it’s time for us to get out.

There are also financial things to consider. While we did basically drain our “dream/retirement” savings account (or will after updates) I’m ok with it because one of the first things we said we wanted to do with that money was to purchase a new “forever” home, which now we’ve done.

Great Prices
Yeah, I’ll admit I wish we would have had a bigger down payment saved but the house was a serious steal. We purchased our new home for about $40K less than all the similar homes in the area and in total it is only $20K more than our current home. I’ll pay $20K more to avoid the gun fire. Even with this new purchase we can still make all of our bills on one income (after we sell our current home). Until we sell our house we’ll continue to pay all our bills with Matt’s income but rather than put my entire pay check into savings $600 will come out to make our current house payment.

Good Mortgage News
Since our new home is the perfect home for us and we plan to be there for a quite a while I’m excited to start working on paying off the mortgage and our student loans early, they are the only debts we have left. (I’m thinking some big progress on this in 2010).

2009 – $12K savings goal
One thing we have had to face is the fact we are not going to make our $12,500 savings goal for 2009. We’ve put the money into our down payment, closing cost and updates to both homes.

I thought I’d be more upset about missing this goal but really I’m ok with it. I’m sure when the year is over we’ll still have saved way more than we would have had with no goal this year at all. We still have a great car and emergency fund that’s growing every day – and we have no plans to touch any of that money.

I think in 2010 we’ll try to save $10,000, not because I don’t think we can do $12,000 but because $10 in ’10 has such a nice ring to it… yes I’m very OCD.

Timing
And lastly we also considered the timing – not just for the market conditions but also our situation. Matt and I would like to have children in the next year and I figure it’s best to take the plunge of buying and selling a home while we’re both working full time than having to worry about it when we might be in a more difficult financial position.

Ok – this is turning into a long post but I wanted to just let everyone see that we really did put a lot of thought into this decision and this is just a small sampling of what we considered when deciding to buy – now you see why it took so long.

And I have some big plans for this house – all of which you’ll be along for the ride for, but those are quite a while in the future.

More Book Sale Finds...

Matt and I went to our favorite quarterly book sale this weekend. We purchased 57 books for $6 that’s only TEN CENTS a book!

I love library books sales like this as a way to get cheap books. Matt and I always go on the Sunday for the $3 bag day and we normally walk away with some great finds. In the past I’ve found basically complete series (Goosebumps, Box Car Kids etc) and have sold them on Craigslist to make back our money and then some.

Here are some of the better titles we brought home this trip…

3 Home improvement books
Memoirs of a Geisha
The Purpose Driven Life
The Complete Cheapskate
Travels – Crichton
The Postman
Who Moved my Cheese
2 Books by Suze Orman
10 Natural Laws of Success Time and Life Management
Rich Dad Poor Dad
The Millionaire Next Door
How to Conquer Clutter
Confessions of an Organized Homemaker
Smart Woman Finish Rich - Bach
White Oleander
1001 Ways to Stretch a Dollar
Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff and it’s all small stuff.
And lots of Tom Clancy books for Matt

And if I get doubles of a particular book or don’t enjoy it I list them on in order to get even more cheap reads.

Bloggy Break Notice

I have to admit defeat for the next few days. I've come to the realization that I can't work 45+ hours a week, complete remodel projects on TWO houses, and run this blog to it's fullest while maintaining the ability to eat and sleep.

I do have a few post written that I want to share but please just realize there may be a day in between post. I promise it's not a permanent thing - we should be officially listing our house this Thursday which will help with everything a little.

I'll also be sharing some pictures of our projects soon as well. Stay tuned.

Kroger GC Winner purchases

I'm a tad behind on my email reading but I wanted to pass on the link Laura sent with pictures of all the items she purchased with the $30 Kroger gift card she won right here at On Our Way.


Stop by Laura's Life and congratulate her on the great deals.

A Clockwork Orange

A Clockwork Orange is a tale from Anthony Burgess about an adolescent boy, Alex. Alex is, “Our humble Narrator” who takes us on a journey through his youth in London (set in a future time period).

We read as Alex goes through what I’ll call an extreme rebellious period – his reformation and subsequent life choices. Sometimes when I read what others call “an American classic” I’m left wondering why exactly the book was given that honor, but I can see why A Clockwork Orange was. It’s a gruesome but cautionary tale of violence and government repression (in some sorts). Alex is originally allowed the choice of good or evil before others try to take it away, which makes the question of this novel. Is it better to have the choice of good or evil, even if people may pick evil?

The storyline and character actions often go to the extreme but I think there is a great point to be found within these pages that is still functional today.

One caution: Burgess uses many of his own slang words through the novel – I found a great online site and spent most of the first six/seven chapters translating from their dictionary.

Books Read in 2009: 25
Books to Read in 2009: 25

Still time for free swagbucks

Don't forget September is the month of Swag.

You can learn about all the new updates to Swagbucks and find out how to get some extra bucks at my original post HERE

You still have until September 10th to use the code megscode (case sensitive) to get an extra two bucks (FIVE total) when you sign up.

Good Reads 9/4/09

Some good reads to pass your way from this week.


Get Rich Slowly has the scoop on How to Boost your retirement - Great advice for this market.

Wise Bread has a post up on Buying a home without the 20% down payment - It's pretty obvious from my recent post how I feel about this since we just purchased with only 5% down but I'd love to hear what you think.

Frugal Dad has a great post on why you should Stop Allowing Fear to Guide Financial Decisions He ends with stating that sometimes you just have to live a little and I couldn't agree more. Actually I think at times I might need to listen to my fears a little more - we've basically stopped watching the news on financial things and just trying to live like we want to (which for us luckily includes saving and living frugal).

Wise Bread has another post up this week on 15 websites that pay you to recycle - If you're planning on getting rid of something check this list first.

A. Baker, Get Rich Slowly's first Staff writer wrote about Making the most of small windfalls - Something Matt and I need to work on as well.


And lastly it's not a post but an entire blog you need to read Backpacking Dad - It's a blog not about backpacking but being a Dad and he's hilarious (which is the most important part duh)

Who doesn't love a good deal?

Labor day weekend is a huge yard sale weekend. For some places (like Michigan) this weekend marks your last chance at decent weather to even have a sale. Here in the big mitten it is suppose to be in the 70's for the next four days so after work this afternoon Matt and I plan to stop by a few select sales. I can't wait to see what we find.

If you are planning on doing some of your own sale hosting this weekend stop by Money Saving Mom to read her Tips for a Successful garage sale

Quick Wal-Mart Trip

I made a quick trip to Walmart this week to pick up Cat food (used my giveabowl $3.50 off coupon) and decided to use a few other coupons in the process.



2 Glade Soy candles (on rollback) $3
- Used (2) $3 off from Redplum.com (zip code: 48910)
= FREE
(I think I may have mentioned how much I love these candles once or twice... ok maybe five or six times, but they are amazing)

1 Febreze candle (also amazing things) (rollback) $5
- Used $2 off coupon from 8/30 insert
= $3 total cost after coupons - A great price for these

I also picked up a pack of 5 furnace filters for less than $4 in a clearance aisle. These will come in handy this winter.

Have you picked up any great items from Walmart lately?

I won a $15 Amazon gift card... and you can too!

When Matt and I were in Vegas I ended up playing on a Monopoly community gaming station and winning $14 from just a single dollar. It was actually a lot of fun, there were six of us at the table and we were all talking while playing. (Matt and I aren't really gamblers so a $14 win was big for us)

Anyway, I didn't really know what the new community thing was other than I liked it, until we returned home and I decided to play the Monopoly town Instant win game from WMS gaming. I haven't played any Instant Win games this summer since we've been so busy but decided to give this one a shot.

I've been playing the instant win for about two weeks now (and actually learning about all the games I played in Vegas) when Tuesday night I won a $15 Amazon gift card. Such a great reward for clicking the mouse a few times.

So you wanna win $15?
Here's How:

Visit the WMS.com site and click on the Instant win box on the lower left corner.

Sign up for the instant win and sweepstakes game (must be 21 to play)

Start by selecting one of the new slot machines and spin the reel to see if you're a winner.

You can play up to five times per day for a chance to win a prize.


The instant win game runs until September 28th and you can only win one instant win prize so get signed up.


::Prizes up for grabs::

2 Grand Prizes: $5,000 - done by drawing from all entries

100 First prizes: $50 Amazon.com gift card
200 Second Prizes: $25 Amazon.com gift card
2,200 Third Prizes: $15 Amazon.com gift card
2000 Fourth prizes: $10 Amazon.com gift card


One of the reasons I love instant win games (besides the prizes) is because they're actually a lot of fun - and this one doesn't disappoint.

Get to Menards...quick

Right now until September 13th Menards is having a huge store wide clearance event.

I would strongly suggest if you have one close by to make a stop in, especially if you have students headed back into school soon.

I picked up this set of four poster markers for $1.99 Tuesday afternoon. I plan to split them up and include them in a Christmas basket this year. All their Crayola items are 50% off including back to school and discontinued office supplies.



Some of the other huge clearance areas include:

35% off all discontinued indoor lighting
40% off all water gardening and accessories
20% off all grass sead
20% off all stanley laser levels
35% all discontinued landscape lighting (my store didn't have a huge selection left)
25% off all portable fans
35% all lawn games
35% all pools and pool toys (they had one of those big air blown pools for under $40)
35% all discontinued faucets
40% all adjustable screenettes
30% all discontinued water filtration
30 - 45% all discontinued wallpaper
40% all hummingbird and oriole feeders
35% all discontinued picture frames (I went a little crazy in this section - lots of stuff)
30% all stock wood and vinyl screen doors
35% discontinued landscaping blocks
20% discontinued fencing
40% all suntan lotion
20% all coolers
25% discontinued indoor/outdoor carpet
15% playset kits and accessories (including slides)
20% all discontinued hardwood flooring
40% all discontinued laminate flooring
30% all camping supplies
40% all discontinued area rugs
20% insect repellents 30% off citronella candles
30% all pots, planters and plant stands
50% decorative lawn statues and patio lights
30% all birdbaths and fountains
30% all arbors and trellises


And of course they have a list of great after rebate items

Blacktop crack filler FREE after $3.50 MIR (limit 4)
10 Piece Shappu knife set FREE after $2 MIR (limit 2)
12 pack Pint sized canning jars $4.88 after $2 MIR (limit 12 packs)
Nano Glue $2.99 after $4 MIR (limit 2)
Silicone Sealant $.99 after $2 MIR. (limit 12)
Tape measure or hammer $.99 after $2 MIR (limit 4 total)


You can find tons of items to make those last minute home improvements before the weather turns, great buys for next summer or Christmas stocking stuffers.

Goodwill Finds 8/30

After running to CVS on Sunday Matt and I took a car load to Goodwill (remember our 30% goal).
And there was no way I was going to be that close to a Goodwill without going in - I did however only pick up two things.


The leaf dish was $.59 and I'm going to use it for some fall decorating. The fake silver platter was $.99 and I have big plans for it in the future. I love all the chalk board things people have been making and have a great decorating idea for our new house. I only need to buy one more small tray, a larger one, some silverware and possibly a set of old keys (if that gives you any hints to what I'm planning).

50% off Boston Market - Labor Day weekend only!

Love Boston Market? So do I -
This Labor Day weekend only (September 5-7th) you can receive 50% off your Boston Market order of any family meal or market feast.

Visit THIS LINK and enter the email address where you would like your coupon sent.

Just make sure to print off the entire email when you go to redeem your coupon - some locations want to see who the coupon was actually sent to and not one that has been printed from a PDF.

CVS 8/30

I actually made it to CVS on Sunday but while typing up my quick trip recap firefox closed out on me twice and once 1am hit I decided it was time to give up.

Now that things seem to be working again we'll get to the posting.




1 Glade Soy Candle $6.99
- Used 1 $2 off coupon
1 CVS lotion $1.49
- Used free item coupon from August
1 CVS hand soap $1.99
- Used Free item coupon (emailed to me)

Total: $10.47
After coupons: $4.99
Paid with ECB's and earned $6.99 back in ECB's from Glade candle deal.

Have I mentioned I LOVE the Glade soy candles, especially when they are FREE! No wait when I was paid $2 to buy it.

Swagbucks Special News

More great news from Swagbucks this week.

Don’t know what Swagbucks is? Check out my original post HERE to learn everything you need to know. I’ve earned over $100 in free Amazon money from Swagbucks this year and you can too.

To celebrate their big news Swagbucks is offering all new registers extra Swagbucks. If you sign up for Swagbucks before September 10th and use the code megscode (case sensitive) you’ll receive 3 free Swagbucks just for signing up and an additional 2 for using my special code.

So what’s the big news you ask?

This month Swagbucks is launching their new toolbar which is compatible with Safari, Firefox, and IE but will also provide links to lots of other Swagbucks items including a quick link to log in to your Swagbucks account.

Then the news gets even better (here’s where you should be listening… wait… reading) When you download the tool bar you will receive a special swag code EVERY day in September. That’s right you can receive up to 30 extra Swagbucks just for downloading the tool bar. That’s more than half way to your first Amazon gift card.

You can download the tool bar starting today from THIS link.

But the new toolbar isn’t the only new item being released this month.
SWAGO is Swagbucks answer to Bingo. During the month of September when you order special select prizes in the Swag store Swagbucks will send you a special SWAGO piece. If you can collect all the pieces in a row you will be awarded 1000 swag bucks!

You can also find a new Back to School section in the Swag store. You’ll be able to find everything you need to equip. yourself for the back to school season from elementary and up.

Make sure to visit the Swag blog at (http://blog.swagbucks.com) for more information.

And remember sign up for Swagbucks using my code (megscode) before September 10th to earn extra swag.

Fiber One Giveaway Winner

Congratulations to ...

Comment #12 from Anna B. for being the winner of our Fiber One Giveaway.

Anna Said

I really enjoy the fiber one yogurt. I am a strawberry girl for sure!!

Thanks to everyone who entered and keep checking back for more giveaways in the future.

Anna - Make sure to check your email - I've sent you a confirmation email and need your reply within 48 hours. Thanks!

FREE $10 Mall gift card

Hey Mom Saves Money has a great post on how to get a FREE (no strings attached) $10 gift card to quite a few different malls. Check out her post on how you can find a participating mall near you.

Good Reads 8/28

Reading the blogs so you don't have to...

The Simple Dollar has a great guest post on Having enough for life.

Recyled Crafts has a tutorial on turning a pop top can into a gift tin.

Money Saving Mom has the scoop on how you can get free museum tickets this weekend.

Coupon Savings has the link to where you can get a FREE sample of Fancy Feast Appetizers

Makes and Takes has a post up on how to make Fuzzy bath bombs I LOVE these. I'm thinking Mothers day next year.

Frugal Dad shares how to Make a dream budget for extra motivation

Have a great post on your blog this week? Feel free to leave a link in the comments section for a great post you've written or read this week.

Fiber One Giveaway Reminder

Don't forget to enter the Fiber One gift basket giveaway.

The offer ends Sunday at midnight - I'll be posting a winner Monday afternoon.

Remember your odds of winning a giveaway hosted at a blog are the best out there so get your entry in asap!

Our New House

Right before we left for Veags I left a post stating we closed on our new home. I mentioned a few times on the blog that we were looking but hadn’t talked much about it. Basically I didn’t want to jinx anything but since it’s 100% ours now I feel safe showing pictures.

So here it is …



This is also the reason I’ve been really busy, Matt and I are dividing our time between both working full time, fixing up our current home so we can put it on the market and get our new home finished so we can move in at some point.

We’ve been trying to take a few before, during, and after pictures as we work – so I’ll try and post some for you when I can.

We really need to try and get a decent price for our current home, even in this market. Our new home is just a little smaller than our current one but is in a much better neighborhood which will provide us with a better long term living option. I’m so ready live in a home where I don’t have to wonder if that loud noise was fireworks or gun shots.

One exciting week...

Remember last week when I said was having an “exciting” week?

This is part of the reason why.



Last Thursday while driving home from work Matt and I were rear ended. We were stopped waiting for a car to turn when a driver behind us decided she couldn’t wait and while changing lanes took out us and the car in the other lane. From the looks of it she was going about 25 to 30 and never put on her brakes. Thankfully she only side swiped us otherwise I’m sure the damage would have been much worse.

Since Matt and I only have PLPD cover we are only entitled to $500 from the other driver's insurance which won’t cover the damage. At first I wanted to pay the money to have it fixed but now that I’m calmer I think we’ll just realize we own a 12 year old car – now complete with a dent.

I do need to at least get a new light cover. Anyone know a place where I can find a cheap one?

Right at home $2 coupon

Right at Home is offering a $2 off coupon for the Glade Fragrance collection. You can select from a reed diffuser, 3 wick soy based candle, 4.9 oz soy candle, or two 2oz soy based candles. I LOVE their soy candles so this coupon will be used quickly especially since these products go on sale often which makes the candles really cheap or even FREE.

I was able to print the coupon twice and they expire 9/24.

Get your coupon HERE

What's He Really Thinking? - Book Review

I haven’t been reading much at all lately which always makes me feel a little out of place. On the way home from Vegas I did finish ”What’s He Really Thinking?” By Paula Rinehart thanks to the Thomas Nelson book reviewing program. (and yes I promise I have a review of Vegas in the works).

I signed up to read ”What’s He Really Thinking?” because I enjoyed “The X and Y of Buy” so much I thought I could gain even more valuable insight with this read.

The book is written by a woman for a woman’s perspective but honestly I think even men could learn about the women in their lives by reading this book as well. While there is something to be learned in ”What’s He Really Thinking?” I just didn’t connect with it like I thought I would.

If you or a loved one is going through a hard time this might be the book for you, I can definitely see how it could help a couple get through a rough patch as well.

I’ll be listing my copy on PBS for a quick credit where there are three people wishing for it right now.

Books Read in 2009: 24
Books to Read in 2009: 26